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Had a really nice female friend. Also vegan so that made her even more attractive to me. Went on a couple dates. They were fantastic. Now I’m being ghosted (meaning she isn’t responding to me). I switch off from being mad to being sad.

It’s really getting to me. Ik this is corny, but I really thought this girl was better than that. What makes me feel worse is that this has happened to me so many times before. Every single rejection weakens my faith in finding someone I could eventually call a wife.

I’m almost at the point where I don’t want to ever try again. I just can’t take it anymore.

I don’t know how to deal with my emotions and I don’t know if I should confront her.

I’m sorry

Had a really nice female friend. Also vegan so that made her even more attractive to me. Went on a couple dates. They were fantastic. Now I’m being ghosted (meaning she isn’t responding to me). I switch off from being mad to being sad. It’s really getting to me. Ik this is corny, but I really thought this girl was better than that. What makes me feel worse is that this has happened to me so many times before. Every single rejection weakens my faith in finding someone I could eventually call a wife. I’m almost at the point where I don’t want to ever try again. I just can’t take it anymore. I don’t know how to deal with my emotions and I don’t know if I should confront her. I’m sorry

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Don't worry, it happens to everyone.

What you call rejection is not always as it seems. Most of the time it's the person ghosting you who has a problem. Most of the time related to insecurity. Some people reject happiness because they don't want to get hooked and then losing it. That could be her case.

I'd say, if she doesn't answer your calls, send her a meaningful message explaining her how you feel.

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