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Had a really nice female friend. Also vegan so that made her even more attractive to me. Went on a couple dates. They were fantastic. Now I’m being ghosted (meaning she isn’t responding to me). I switch off from being mad to being sad.

It’s really getting to me. Ik this is corny, but I really thought this girl was better than that. What makes me feel worse is that this has happened to me so many times before. Every single rejection weakens my faith in finding someone I could eventually call a wife.

I’m almost at the point where I don’t want to ever try again. I just can’t take it anymore.

I don’t know how to deal with my emotions and I don’t know if I should confront her.

I’m sorry

Had a really nice female friend. Also vegan so that made her even more attractive to me. Went on a couple dates. They were fantastic. Now I’m being ghosted (meaning she isn’t responding to me). I switch off from being mad to being sad. It’s really getting to me. Ik this is corny, but I really thought this girl was better than that. What makes me feel worse is that this has happened to me so many times before. Every single rejection weakens my faith in finding someone I could eventually call a wife. I’m almost at the point where I don’t want to ever try again. I just can’t take it anymore. I don’t know how to deal with my emotions and I don’t know if I should confront her. I’m sorry

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If she isn't responding to you I would chalk it up to her lose unless you want to do more of a chase. My bil asked my sister out a number of times before she said yes(he is pretty Beta too but he knew he wanted her and didn't give up). Some times girls are dumb- if she doesn't want to date you she should just say so. But other times girls need to be persued. If you think she isn't worth the effort or it would not work on her then move on, shake it off and just go on some low presser dates for fun. Usually when you tske the presser off things is when it happens. I've heard that story with people finding "The one" and getting pregnant. Try to enjoy the journey and work on you till you find someone.