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She doesn’t know that I know. I just found out. Separate bank account with almost 5k in it being added to weekly.

I pay for all the bills and have for years and years. Always being told she spends her money “on the kids”

Not really sure where to go with this new knowledge but had to get it off my chest somewhere. We have 5 kids. Feeling a little bit betrayed.

She doesn’t know that I know. I just found out. Separate bank account with almost 5k in it being added to weekly. I pay for all the bills and have for years and years. Always being told she spends her money “on the kids” Not really sure where to go with this new knowledge but had to get it off my chest somewhere. We have 5 kids. Feeling a little bit betrayed.

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[–] • 2 pts

There was a piece of paper stuffed in some receipts. It had a bank name, log in and password on it and I thought “hmmmm we don’t use this bank?”

I logged in but it was locked by multi factor authentication (send code via text BS) When she got home from work and took a shower I got the code from her phone and logged in.

[–] • 5 pts

You might ask her about what account this paper you found is for and go from there.

idk if you want to get into how you know how much is in the account since you'd have to fess up to accessing her phone etc.

[–] • 3 pts

This is a good way to go about it.