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She doesn’t know that I know. I just found out. Separate bank account with almost 5k in it being added to weekly.

I pay for all the bills and have for years and years. Always being told she spends her money “on the kids”

Not really sure where to go with this new knowledge but had to get it off my chest somewhere. We have 5 kids. Feeling a little bit betrayed.

She doesn’t know that I know. I just found out. Separate bank account with almost 5k in it being added to weekly. I pay for all the bills and have for years and years. Always being told she spends her money “on the kids” Not really sure where to go with this new knowledge but had to get it off my chest somewhere. We have 5 kids. Feeling a little bit betrayed.

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It's probably just extra for emergencies. My husband and I do this to each other all the time. Then when shit hits the fan we ask how much the other has squirreled away.

Wouldn't you be better off just having a shit fund you both know about and don't touch? Hoping your partner has an unknown amount of money to pull out of their ass doesn't seem like the best way to deal with an unplanned situation.