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She doesn’t know that I know. I just found out. Separate bank account with almost 5k in it being added to weekly.

I pay for all the bills and have for years and years. Always being told she spends her money “on the kids”

Not really sure where to go with this new knowledge but had to get it off my chest somewhere. We have 5 kids. Feeling a little bit betrayed.

She doesn’t know that I know. I just found out. Separate bank account with almost 5k in it being added to weekly. I pay for all the bills and have for years and years. Always being told she spends her money “on the kids” Not really sure where to go with this new knowledge but had to get it off my chest somewhere. We have 5 kids. Feeling a little bit betrayed.

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[–] • 4 pts (edited )

I cannot and will not presume to know what your marriage is like.

But women, specifically most mother's, love their children more than anything else.

If you love something, you have to plan to take care of it no matter what, even if things don't go according to plan.

It's why people buy insurance on houses, cars, and even spouses.

Nobody plans on having their house burn down, but is does happen.

Things are probably fine with you and your marriage, but what if you left her or got arrested for treason and all your assets were seized? She'd need something to take care of the kids with.

She'd be a worse mother if she didn't have an emergency nest egg nobody knew about.

In other words, your five children are cucking you, causing your wife to choose them over you.

So you have to sit down and have an honest conversation with your wife. Tell her it's you or the kids. She has to choose, she can't have both.

If she chooses the kids, great, she has 5,000$ in a secret bank account to take care of them for the rest of their lives.

If she chooses you, I'm pretty certain you can anonymously drop off children at hospitals and fire stations, no questions asked.

Good luck, I wish you the best.

-Theo

[–] • 4 pts

This is the dumbest piece of advice I have ever heard. OP don't so this.

[–] • 5 pts

You could not have got to the end and thought this was legitimate advice.

[–] • 0 pt

With the level of incel's seeping into poal I have no way of knowing. Some of the B's those guys buy into is next level retarded.

[–] • 1 pt

Are you a woman?