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She doesn’t know that I know. I just found out. Separate bank account with almost 5k in it being added to weekly.

I pay for all the bills and have for years and years. Always being told she spends her money “on the kids”

Not really sure where to go with this new knowledge but had to get it off my chest somewhere. We have 5 kids. Feeling a little bit betrayed.

She doesn’t know that I know. I just found out. Separate bank account with almost 5k in it being added to weekly. I pay for all the bills and have for years and years. Always being told she spends her money “on the kids” Not really sure where to go with this new knowledge but had to get it off my chest somewhere. We have 5 kids. Feeling a little bit betrayed.

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You don't own a shovel? J/k obviously.

Sometimes shit is what it is, be direct and see if there's something you can do to fix it before you throw it all away. Ten years is already way more than a tenth of our lives if we're being honest w/ ourselves.

Ya can't fix it then it just is what it is. More often than not the things you dislike about your partner don't outweigh the good shit they do for others. Life's complicated like that. W/ 5 kids... you got a lot on your mind. Just think it through.