I'm on the "fuck you I quit" method. The whole apologizing thing felt awkward to me. The worst I ever did to anyone drunk is be lazy. well, I don't have any children, so if you are counting on me for something fuck you. I have a job, but I always did that job sober. The only person with a right to count on me is my girlfriend (life partner), and Lord knows I apologize to her for shit I do sober. I guess time will tell if being dry works. I wouldn't mind another stint in rehab. That was fun.