So it's a two-part attack. First you have to ask them if men can understand the emotional intricacies of women and help guide young women through their emotional intricacies. They will of course say no they can't because they don't experience the same thing women do so they can't understand and blah blah blah.... Then you have to point out that if that's the case then maybe it's single motherhood that is the problem because single women raising men can't possibly understand and navigate the intricacies of the male mind and emotional set let alone guide a young man through it into responsible manhood. Use their own weapons against them. It's like taking the nunchucks away from the anime nerd and hitting them with em.