FFS.
One would think growing up in such conditions you would try and compensate by going trad wife. (if you can be successfull at it due to lack of proprer exampels is a diferent question)
The youngest did try but only had the example of the older one and dated the same group of people. The youngest doesn’t drink or do drugs like the older one did and finally became somewhat of a “trad wife” , she’s now a stay at home girlfriend for the pilot and is extremely happy with a mexican.
The other one finally cleaned up and is a stay at home wife of a mexican but it took her much longer(trad wife for a mexican).
The older one went off the deep end at 15 or so when the mom got hooked on meth and black men started doing their “charming/smarmy” schtick on her. The younger didn’t ever know(remember pre-meth) normal, lived through the meth/alcoholiinsm got straight A’s, wanted to do good but unfortunately the only figure she had to look up to was her older sister(I believe they’re 10 years apart).
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