I used to know one girl that was paranoid about insec and would only use What's App to talk because she thought it was the most secure (it isn't) and wouldn't give me her real number for a while but she gave me her email which included her married name. She was married and didn't want me to know but she gave me a proton email with everything I needed on it. It didn't take a minute to find out she had an entire family hidden away and wanted a fling. She was *very* suspicious, like she constantly tried to hide shit but she really had no idea how. I didn't tell her I do insec. All I said was I worked in IT.