Most excellent.
What I keep trying to get guys to understand is that one solid rejection can crush a woman for life.
There's always some guy who says, "If I don't fuck her, then some other guy will!" Basically arguing that it's OK to validate the woman because someone is going to, so he might as well be the one doing it.
What these guys don't get is that these girls have never once been rejected. They are not even aware of the possibility of rejection. Well, it's too late for me to be her first sexual partner, but I might have a shot at being the first man to reject her. She won't forget the guy who popped her cherry, and she sure as shit won't forget the first guy to reject her sexually.
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