People are conditioned to let the state handle the aging. It is financially encouraged with programs like Medicare and Medicaid.

These people are how they are based on their own upbringing, as taught by their own self-centered parents, the very ones you indicate that should be kept home among the kids. Nope. All of this is learned behavior and becomes multi-generational. Soon enough, these adults will find themselves warehoused in Senior Centers and they will wonder how this came to pass. Screw them, screw them all.