Well it's simple, you lose everything you'll ever have/had, and everything you have, including relatives, memories, material possessions evidently, opportunities, and yourself And it's not as bad as people make it to be. In fact once you're there as a matter of fact it really is nothing Ultimately that's what happens ... For some close relatives who stay behind, the weird part often is when they start to realize that in fact, they feel liberated by your death Because death also does that, you're sad and all, or at least supposed to be... And at the same time you feel liberated, hence a sense of guilt, a permanent refusal to embrace that reality "No I must not, what's wrong with me, I loved my dad I can't be happy with his death, I'm not a scum!" Oh yes you are a scum, and that's 0K, it's fine, here have a tissue And we will all have the corona btw, at this point it's a mathematical certainty, potentially turning into "murderers" of our own relatives That, you have to prepare for that