Focus on the light you build. Of course I mean only partially. If that was all you focused on that would be narcissistic. But you get what I'm saying. Focusing on what other people do and criticizing everything even if it deserves criticism isn't how you want to spend the majority of your life. It's better to create than to watch. And some people get so bored and unsatisfied by watching that they have to make it more interesting by finding the most dramatic things to watch.