I no longer write off stuff like this. I see miserable people around me who absolutely seem to create their own miserable experiences. It is like they see the bad in everything and everybody and that in turn seems to drag down their family and friends. It is palpable. It seems to go hand in hand with the programming they subscribe to via main stream media. They will not let themselves or their family or friends enjoy anything. They absolutely manage to create their own misery.
Alternatively I see people who are calm and happy and they too somehow project onto their families and friends good experiences. Little drama. Few bad things befell them and their families.
There is something to this. Something to this timeline.
Ah! Someone that sees it as well. Yup, you got it exactly correct. In every tribe there is one or two of these and every tribe used to have ways of "helping" these people exit stage right.
One of the biggest mistakes that we have made in modern society in the pursuit of trying to make everyones lives safe is give these things free reign to cause utter chaos and destruction without any cost to them selves.
And, there is a HUGE difference between women just being insecure and over analytical. The two examples I posted are orders of magnitude into the true crazy territory. And they are unbelievably dangerous.
There are degrees to this as well. I have seen men in my family cut off their women from contact with certain other women that were putting garbage ideas into their womens heads and slowly poisoning them and their relationships. As soon as the men put their foot down and those contacts were broken their relationships improved.
You got it exactly right. Identifying these people is really really important.
(post is archived)