Yes faggots like transsexual men. They still should be sterilized by fire.
I'm a chick so I look at this very differently. I think you guys are being programmed to find masculine features in women to be exotic and attractive, as opposed to more feminine features. It started many decades ago and has only gotten worse over the years. I am an 80's child and the 90's was the heaviest hitting change from the 80's as far as how far it went from ultra feminine (even the men looked like women in the 80's) to fairly masculine. You had things like Fiona Apple sounding, looking(thinness/sharpness of physical features) and behaving like a man, even Alanis Morrissette, and Garbage (cant remember her name atm) being very forward in a masculine/sexual way. I have never looked into whether any of those were trannies, I wouldn't think they would be as the impact of a real woman behaving in a masculine way would impact a man's "lizard brain" in a way that a tranny disguised as a woman wouldn't.
Anyway, the crazy thin, overly muscular features became a big thing and hasn't gone away. Men who have fallen for that as opposed to pleasantly plump (not fat, just nicely padded) very well may have lusted after many a tranny without knowing it. The first tranny model was featured in playboy in 1981, and most men have no idea. I think if they found out they would be greatly disturbed. It's such a mind game. The interesting contrast to this is the well emphasized overt sexuality of black men towards very feminine women (yes, they really lust after anything, but they pick up on white women when they're voluptuous as opposed to stick thin). There was a screenshot a few days ago about a white girl who said black men were hitting on her and it was time to lose weight. This just pushes that window for white men to reject what the black man considers prime.
Again I'm not saying obese. Mexicans and blacks will take any white woman with a low enough self esteem to go to them. Just reflecting upon how the white man has been psychologically manipulated to prefer a category of women who are closer to a MTF tranny on HRT than what a real woman is.
It's even worse for the more recent generation. You've got males who you cant call men anymore, having fat deposits in hips and thighs and breasts. I've mistaken a man for a woman who was not HRT/tranny in a parking lot from behind until he turned around. By contrast the average woman is a dumpster fire of disgusting fat, attempts at manly haircut, total disposal of any feminine traits that are desireable from both physical features to emotional and behavioral. They can't cook, they aren't loving, they're whores, and fat, tatted, gross. Pat was foreshadowing for what they were up to. Sexual disfunction and confusion is a real phenomenon and I feel sorry for anyone who isn't paying attention to the cues and regularly consumes any kind of media with images. My husband and I are weird birds; neither of us watched any TV after our early teens. If only we could do the same for the majority of our world, so much would be corrected.
Anyway I've been drinking. TL:DR men's sexual attraction is being fucked with on a scale most aren't paying attention to. Not even considering porn.
Edited for typos. I'm sure I still missed some.
How do I find a decent wife? I’ve tried, it’s disheartening out there.
Tell your husband he’s lucky.
Thank you. I'm equally lucky, he is a good husband, father, provider.
To be quite frank the only way I found him was because of all the bad examples I had while I dated. I learned each time what to avoid and when he and I started dating there was no "fuck around and find out" happening. The heavy hitting questions came out from the get go. I was done, I had decided I would just be an old cat lady (at the ripe age of 23) with a career and travel. So when we had our first date I was asking hard questions and he didn't back down (his time clock was going off to have children, funny that you guys have that too :) ). I was looking for a reason to not date him again. He passed. He would tell you he knew we were getting married after that date. And he told me two weeks later we were going to be married. He proposed less than a year later.
So my suggestion is to look for women who stand out from whatever environment they are in. I shot pool a lot, and even though it was a bar, I never drank or smoke, and I never went home with any man. There were none there worth having.
At the grocery store, notice the women who arent wearing rings and are buying real food, not crap.
Join groups for people who like the same thing you do. Shooting? Patriotic? Cyclist? Sailing? If they're tatted up, pierced up, dress trampy, use salacious behavior, dodge. It's hard for a man because this behavior is an easy sales pitch because you think well hey at least i'll get laid. Every day you spend with that kind of woman is a day you could have met the right kind.
Sit down and think really hard about the kind of woman you do want and don't settle. See the early warning signs. And DO NOT settle for an ugly one thinking it'll work better. It doesn't. I tried that. All it got me was a lot of ragging from friends about earning a martyr award in heaven. You need to be within 1 SMV (sexual market value) point on a 10 point scale or you're going to deal with insecurity. No one needs any extra crap to deal with in a relationship.
And you're probably not going to want to hear this. But the ultimate factor in finding a good mate is ultimately dictated by the values within the bible. No one likes to admit that the very core virtues all stem from what God has said. Everything he tells us is for our benefit, and living by his word and standards results in a life well lived, well rewarded, satisfactory, far easier than any life full of what is considered sinful. Examine the virtues therein and examine yourself and make sure that you are a man worth having the kind of woman you desire to have. Because SMV isn't the only important factor. Spiritual market value very well may be exceedingly important.
Wish you the best. Don't settle even in a world where it seems there is nothing but leftovers. I thought the same thing and gave up. That's when he found me.
I agree with all that. There are models out there that are actually women, but "the look" they've been going for is very thin and angular and it's pretty obvious now that it was intended to help them "blend in" the MTF trannies.
It's not just men that are too feminine now...it's women too. Yes, no one talks about the idea that women can be "too woman". All the things that make men too feminine, chemicals it food/water/ etc. are also consumed by women too and I'm convinced that's why you have so many young, miraculously still masculine, men so thoroughly frustrated with the "average woman" their age, you find a lot of us here. Those women, while they should be feminine, are now too feminine to be around masculine men, to the point that a lot of imperfect, but otherwise normal young men end up being treated hostilely by the general experience they have with young women now. It's just that, historically, everyone's a lot more ok with shitting on men than women, so we're not even talking about the possibility of women being too feminine.
That said, there's a whole lot of other issues going on with why there aren't any "good men" anymore, but I have shit to do today.
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