Fun fact - I've been arrested twice for simply being in my dad's house where I lived my whole life cos he didn't want me there anymore and I had no where else to go.
Geeze, man. I dunno you're situation, but if you're serious I imagine it's a hard one if you're telling a stranger about it. I didn't even WANT to know what you've shared, but you might want to use the quarantine to reevaluate your situation. Painful as it may be, simply accept that your father wants nothing to do with you, and move on giving him nothing to be involved with in your life and working to be as accomplished as you can be without him. If it's a cultural thing that played a part in you being rejected, find one with values you better align with.
Again, I don't know your situation and do not want to know your situation, but you need to focus on developing yourself to be the most capable, competent person that you can be. If you're unemployed, consider developing skills that are sought after which allow you to work independently of an employer. If you've already got skills, but have been told that you're unemployable, join respected groups and organizations that have men in them you can approach to help mentor you towards being employable. If you're out of shape, get in the best shape that you can. If you're living in debt, work to get out of debt and build up a savings.
If you're determined to improve your situation, you will. Don't let anything hold you down or hold you back. Get at it.
Lol wtf even are you Mr Uncalled For Puddles Pity Party?
When I was 14 my dad told me I'd never get anywhere in life cos all I do is sit in my room and touch myself.
When I was 16-17 and he invaded my privacy and read my chat room messages he said that if he'd known I'd turn out gay he would have had me aborted.
Yet after I've moved out and gone no contact he keeps on spamming me with 'your parents love you, why don't you ever phone home?' letters in the post.
But somehow I'm meant to magically be a well adjusted adult and hold down a job somehow.
Fortunately I just got a letter today telling me that my PIP appeal is now on April 27th via phonecall and I have more than enough medical evidence to win all the monies with backpayment plus potentially loads of extra compo.
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