You have to move around and even compromise with your beliefs a bit to find livelier and younger crowds. What is most important is being married, having children, and teaching the next generation your high level of morals (while keeping an eye single to the Glory of God, of course). If you have to slightly change your believes, but still remain as a good standing Christian, that compromise may be worth it. Last church I went to, half were very young, beautiful. The men were handsome and active, too. Plenty for both sexes to choose potential partners. Imagine that: young, righteous, people are attractive.