I didnt form a discord i just sold all my shit and left the city. Theres people and places already out there. I spent weekends driving around looking for places that were good candidates. I talk to people and meet them face to face people who dont live in cities and arent as consumed by the machine. Eventually i found a place that was out of the way from anything anyone would care about and had the people i aligned with already in it and to be honest most of them are more hardcore than even i am. These cities we are in breed dependence on them, make you unable to see how anything else could be, make you scared to live without their system implemented on top of you.