This (((man cave))) is just a woman's control over her spineless man. It's useless and wasteful. It only serves her need to show of and be validated for being a (((good wife))) to other women. It probably doesn't get used much. What a fucking waste.
That is very much the point I've made to friends over the years. I don't have a designated Man Cave at the house because I don't need to be validated by my wife. I work on projects in the garage where my tools are located. There's no TV or bar there because neither of us watches much TV and I'll be damned if I am relegated to a specific area if I want to have a drink. If I want to use other areas of the house for tasks, I will. So will my wife.
During this past week she used the dining room table to wrap presents for a birthday party we were invited to. On Sunday I used that very same table to clean my guns after I came back from the range. Both of us cleaned up after ourselves because we're adults, and that's what adults do.
Being married is really pretty simple. Treat each other with respect.
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