Let's say that what he wrote is true. He (and ya'all, nearly all the time) just are unable to ever become aware that women - who are human beings ( a lesson to many on Poal ) have _wants_ . And these _wants_ may not all be perfectly aligned with the neo-Calvinist masturbatory desires of the I-know-it-all blokes who seem to make up the vast majority of the commentary here, on Poal. A woman may want to have some career success, 'cos she wants to be at least a somewhat successful scientist (say) like her mother or father or role models. She might want to have complete financial independence because so many men are complete and utter fuckwit simpleton TV-watching booster-taking irrelevant androids. If any of you (ya'll) could take into account these human beings' wants (in your crawl-out-of-the-swamp philosophies), then you would be much further ahead, and you might actually get to sleep with someone who actually likes you.