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Women lose respect for vulnerable men. It's okay to have these feelings, but there is no benefit to sharing them with a woman.

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Or just simply lose respect for him for “being weak”.

Keep your pain to yourself or share with trusted male friends and family.

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lose respect for him for “being weak”.

Yes, exactly.

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Women respect men that get things done. If you share it after you are done, you get her respect. If you share it in the process, it is also now in her knowledge, which makes her more tense. If you share it as a future problem, you bring her issues.

So shut up and let God deal with your problems, confess if you done something bad and let your priest share your burden, and be a strong man for your family; not just physically (which also helps dealing with problems)

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Many women seem to not have the filter that stops you from saying things that can’t be forgotten or taken back. They can go low and go hard without thinking of the consequences. I learned long ago not to give them the ammo of knowing any of my insecurities or emotional pain. Sad, really.

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My mom was like this. I don't have a good relationship with my mom.

I know some women who wouldn't do this, ones who don't get mad easily.

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Often years later