A lady can dress however cute she wants, and a nerd would say he'd proffer her in a dress making him sandwiches, compliment her then acknowledge her only as much as necessary to keep the sandwhiches coming while he plays online with his friends or alone for most of the rest of his life. Then one's cute ass just twiddles her thumbs listening to the ticking of her internal clock wondering a bunch of things... For the right kind of nerd the window of opportunity is very small despite the lady practically throwing herself at him wishing at every opportunity for sex that never comes.