thank you! im really excited! im nervous about going to a hopsital to give birth though. im considered "high risk" because ive only gone to get checked up on twice, only once with an ultra sound.
"your baby is positioned well and you and the baby seem to be in perfect health. unfortunately youre considered high risk and will have to give birth at a hospital that will accept high risk births."
im a bit worried they will force a C section and other weird shit on me thats unnecessary. if my husband isnt allowed to be in the hospital with me i will leave and give birth in the car
Why are you high risk? Because you didn't pay the doctors enough to check your pregnancy?
My third kid, they didn't even see me until I was six months. Never any ultrasound until then, and it was to determine sex. If I have any more I will not have any ultrasound and I won't be going to the hospital. It's a racket that puts everything at risk.
Find a great midwife instead.
thats exactly why they are trying to scare me with the words "high risk"
im not sure if any midwife would be willing to help out this late in the game since they werent with me for the whole pregnancy, thats what my stepmom says. plus i dont have money to pay them with, and free health insurance only supplies you with the best healthcare communism can buy, which isnt a midwife.
now im tempted to give birth at home again.
did your kids get any of the recomended vaccines? im told i have two weeks after birth to give my kid vaccines or there will be legal reprecussions
I still don't understand how you're high risk. Are you older? Super over weight? Have health conditions? Handicapped?
Legal repercussions? Like what? If I were you I would find out what your rights are and who is supposedly going to press the charges. There are vaccine rights groups in each state.
My first two I had back to back and I vaccinated them up until four or five, I can't recall. My third has had none. I wish someone could've told me just a basic caution so I would've learned quicker. It was very scary not vaccinating my third. I worried he would get sick, I stressed over people accusing me of murdering other children with my choice. It takes a lot of studying to be able to be completely certain about that choice when it's beat into your head your entire life that vaccines are necessary and doctors do no harm.
I can't advise you to home deliver alone, I would never want to be the person who caused you harm. I don't know anything about birthing babies, all three of mine were c section. If I have another it will be home delivered. There's entire groups of women who gave vaginal birth after multiple caesarians (VBAC2,3&4). It's not the same but somehow gives me confidence, I have helped deliver many baby goats.
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