Been on vacation a week, staying in to unpack and set up the new place. We have a sweet old tyme clawfoot tub. I told the wife Tuesday, having burned already 4 days of my vacation, that before i go back to work she will desire me and take correct steps to present herself appropriately so as to engender my interest. So she argued, of course, and pretended to not understand and i huffed away disinterested in explaining much further. So it's Friday night now. Relaxing day around the house and we're unwinding on the couch after building the garden and decorating. She finally got that bath early today but i had to lift and do some errands so i figured ok tonight. 8 o'clock and she's still frumpy from gardening, smeared with dirt still. I remind her that her friends are coming over tonight to have some drinks and see the place. Off she ran. 15 minutes later she's looking good, nice makeup, cute outfit. She said as she scurried off "i cant look like a slob if they're coming over!" No problem looking like that all day for this asshole though. Built a wall for the garden, set up the computer and tv after it defied her and her friends efforts the night before. It was chest day so i had a sweet pump. I was working w power tools and shit, i don't understand why i am failing.