I've helped many friends move, especially during my 20s and 30s. One move I will always remember as the move from Hell. Nothing was packed. Dirty laundry in the washer - with water. Dryer had clothes in it (but dryers are light). Baby's play pen and room not packed, toys and stuff everywhere on the floor. We filled the playpen with the loose toys and hauled it away. Dishes filled the kitchen cabinets. Dishwasher had dirty dishes in it. Beds were still assembled with dirty sheets. What a long day that was. Furniture cabinets still packed with crap. Zero preparation. Thank God there were 5 of us that showed up to help that morning. The guy's wife was off with their 3 kids - that would have really topped it off if we had to work around them all day too. I never helped him move again.