Thanks for the great reply, that's very good advice. I learned this on voat some years ago, observed it in a few aquaintances, and adopted the strategy. Took me from being an angry, suicidal reject to being a happy, monolithic contributor in my community. I legit willed myself out of depression, anyone can, and I explain this to depressed white people. Never coddle them or feed their attention-seeking, just bitch-slap them in the face with that truth. Its traditional in fact, Europeans have clearly withstood milenia of vile hordes and other calamities through sheer willpower, often trumpeting its necessity. "The Will of Europe still endures." - Voltaire probably. A problem I have with the strategy is I often am perceived as just an asshole. Now women love an asshole, but they generally seek one they can manipulate. I've seen some truly amazing failed manipulation attempts from delusional whores, including a bitch trying to have me arrested for battery after I cut her off. Luckily she didn't slap herself hard enough for the cops to see the "evidence", but she tried. Got herself on record as a liar. Oh the joys of the modern dating market.