Why am I not getting married?
Legal system and society heavily biased against men.
If you have kids, you will likely not really be there to see them grow up as she will likely leave you.
Legal and economic consequences that can last years if not decades.
I don't want the government asserting itself over my relationships.
Reality is, she is likely 80% going to initiate a divorce before the 10 years. You will likely pay child support for kids that you hardly see. Possibly alimony, lawyer fee's for a divorce that typically takes 2 years to finish which will likely run in the 100,000 - 200,000 (that the man will likely have to pay) and of course you losing 1/2 of your stuff in the process on top of those other costs.
Getting married doesn't mean shit anymore, women don't care as they will be provided for till they monkey branch to the next sucker, they just want to find someone that will support them which means having a baby with them or marriage that last 10 years (depending on the state). Women are looking for providers, not a partner.
Children really need both parents full time, not this 4 days a month BS so I rather not have kids if I can't raise them.
Lastly, I like my freedom and having children eliminates that.
If she is a mental case, guess who is going to be a pain in your ass for decades if you have children with her. Imaging having her lawyer drum up some shit just to cause you problems? Ball and chain.
Now we're facing serious economic strife and the amount of debt people have accumulated and drowning under which means will likely see war of some sort which will cause more problems and I don't want to raise children in that environment. I've lost my father and I've seen the damage it causes for years to the family and I rather not subject them to that.
The juice isn't worth the squeeze.
I don't want the government asserting itself over my relationships.
Get married and don't get a legal Government contract just do it in a spiritual marriage.
This obviously solves most of your cons though I have to ask;
Legal system and society heavily biased against men.
Don't you think this has always been the case to a large extent? Sure, in ancient Rome the man could legally kill his wife if she cheated on him, however, there is no way to ever know if the child is yours. In a large degree it's up to you to find a good woman. WHy do you not trust yourself to find someone faithful?
Lastly, I like my freedom and having children eliminates that.
Freedom for what? Masturbating to porn? What could you possibly contribute that is better than children? You aren't Tesla. You aren't inventing the next technology. What could you possibly grant to posterity other than your blood?
Now we're facing serious economic strife and the amount of debt people have accumulated and drowning under which means will likely see war of some sort which will cause more problems and I don't want to raise children in that environment. I've lost my father and I've seen the damage it causes for years to the family and I rather not subject them to that.
Bullshit excuse. I was born in the Soviet Union. There is no better time than now to get married and have children. Just lots of excuses, I keep hearing.
Muh Freedom
dude. I was getting drunk and banging worthless pussy with 'muh freedom' it's stupid. Nothing more gratifying than getting maried to a woman you trust and having children.
Not everyone is meant to be paired up or a parent. Some people (me) are antisocial and enjoy their own company more than anyone else’s. I know that when I was in relationships with women, if my dick wasn’t in them, there was no other way they could fulfill me and that still holds true to this day. If I wasn’t drilling their pussy out, all the other time spent with them was not only a waste but caused me stress and agitation. Why would I do that to myself for a 2 second nut? Also, like he said, this twisted society has gender roles reversed and has the man enslaved. Me personally, I’m no longer a young man and I have a lot more life experience than some of you and I know what is best for me isn’t the consensus of some messageboard.
>spiritual marriage
Good option, also a defacto marriage. Keep in mind that some countries/states will consider a couple defacto if you live together long enough or have a joint bank account. Australia is 6 months if she moves in with you. US has varying time limits so she could sue and win. Don't ever have a joint bank account with someone you're dating. If she moves in, have her sign a lease agreement.
> Finding a good women
My experience, most women put on a good women vibe for awhile and do all the things you want during the relationship phase. But once you get married, she will gradually stop doing those things and using those things as a way of control. It's going to be very difficult to know if this is what you will get once married. If she changes and she probably will, there is no recourse.
> Freedom
If you have a partner and children, you're a slave. Try saying no to that covid jab to keep your job.
>Nothing more gratifying than getting maried to a woman you trust and having children.
This is probably the case for most people if you're lucky enough to find that unicorn of a wife. What happens if you end up not trusting her after you get married? Opps.
This is probably the case for most people if you're lucky enough to find that unicorn of a wife. What happens if you end up not trusting her after you get married? Opps.
This is why you treat finding a woman like finding a job. And let’s be honest we can see the red flags within the first hour of meeting someone
The juice isn't worth the squeeze.
Since they give out the juice anyways. There is even less of a reason to get married.
I bet you're real fun at parties.
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