>>spiritual marriage Good option, also a defacto marriage. Keep in mind that some countries/states will consider a couple defacto if you live together long enough or have a joint bank account. Australia is 6 months if she moves in with you. US has varying time limits so she could sue and win. Don't ever have a joint bank account with someone you're dating. If she moves in, have her sign a lease agreement. >> Finding a good women My experience, most women put on a good women vibe for awhile and do all the things you want during the relationship phase. But once you get married, she will gradually stop doing those things and using those things as a way of control. It's going to be very difficult to know if this is what you will get once married. If she changes and she probably will, there is no recourse. >> Freedom If you have a partner and children, you're a slave. Try saying no to that covid jab to keep your job. >>Nothing more gratifying than getting maried to a woman you trust and having children. This is probably the case for most people if you're lucky enough to find that unicorn of a wife. What happens if you end up not trusting her after you get married? Opps.