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I started a new job through a training program this year and I'm about 80% of the way through it with extremely high grades. I'm going to fail because of social politics. I'm officially on a "do better or we're firing you' plan that basically boils down to stop asking questions, and do everything the way one of your four bosses wants it done and do it faster. Oh and the boss watching you is going to change every day.

I asked for an example of how I'm not taking feedback well, and the one that came to mind to my girl boss was when we were discussing something technical with no one around, and i asked for a literature reference to read up on.

Fuck me. When the accusation is that you don't take feedback well, you literally can't say a damn thing about anything.

I started a new job through a training program this year and I'm about 80% of the way through it with extremely high grades. I'm going to fail because of social politics. I'm officially on a "do better or we're firing you' plan that basically boils down to stop asking questions, and do everything the way one of your four bosses wants it done and do it faster. Oh and the boss watching you is going to change every day. I asked for an example of how I'm not taking feedback well, and the one that came to mind to my girl boss was when we were discussing something technical with no one around, and i asked for a literature reference to read up on. Fuck me. When the accusation is that you don't take feedback well, you literally can't say a damn thing about anything.
[–] • 6 pts

Tell them that their management style is hostile and passive aggressive which is giving you PTSD because you're an introverted autist who does not wish to be singled out as that is non-inclusive behavior and these constant microaggressions against you create a toxic work environment which impacts your mental health. Use the stupid ways of (((modern HR))) against them.

[–] • 3 pts

Don't be a Kobayashi Maru failure. There's no such thing as a 'no win' situation. :P

[–] • 1 pt

I wish this worked like that... I should have run for the hills when i saw I was going to be the only male employee. I'm already trying to figure out a new job and how to repay the fees without losing the house. My life insurance could probably set my family up to go on without me, but fuck... I'm tired of this crap.

[–] • 2 pts

Divide is for weak minded niggers. This cannot be the hardest thing you have done. Make it work then bail.

And by that don’t be my dad and run his fucking mouth all the time. Sometimes you gotta eat a shit sammich to get the cheese.

You got this.

[–] • 1 pt

If there aren't enough employees they'll be desperate... j/k don't kill your coworkers.

[–] • 0 pt

Girl boss: quit. It stick out the 20% rest of it then quit. Unless your in some specialized training that only this retard company does, they you need to seek a better decision class.

[–] • 1 pt

I'm already looking. It's highly specialized but i can't take my clinical progress with me, and unfortunately i need this bitch to give me a gold star to get through it, but it feels like she's actively sabotaging me. Since she's my boss, and the education director is in another state, I really have no options to get her to calm down or get a neutral third party involved. It's all medical related so I can't even record her getting on my case!

[–] • 2 pts

Play nice, play subordinate, make her fell like she’s the smartest cunt in the room.

It won’t be forever.

[–] • 0 pt

My default in situations like this is to go formal, and not speak unless required to. Which thankful isn't noted on my PIP.

By training I'm a scientist not a nurse and the culture shock is still mind blowing to me.

But I'm still pondering this: How the hell is asking for further information to read up on something considered 'responds poorly to feedback??!!

[–] • 0 pt

Have you spoken with an employment attorney? If not, do so immediately.

[–] • 0 pt

I have not. Most of the job is verbal and happens inside an operation room which is not recorded. Everything i have that's a document all paints a well coordinated picture that I question feedback and don't do my work to an arbitrarily ill defined 'good enough' standard. Literally everything is missing context and the full story as well, but good luck proving that.

The 30mins of verbal deconstruction i got while finalizing some paperwork is also conveniently missing, and the only witnesses are hospital employees who don't give a fuck, and wouldn't remember.

[–] • 0 pt

Talk to an attorney - let a pro tell you what your options are rather than assuming you have none.

[–] • 0 pt

Watch out for the "You need to work on Finals Week" scam. If your work is reimbursing you for education and require a certain grade to payout they may try to get you to miss finals. Talk to the teacher, they've probably seen this crap before and will likely be willing to let you take the exam at a different time.

[–] • 0 pt

Sorry that you're going through this, Brother. And I'm sorry that it's weighing on you. But, given what you said in another comment - joke or not - I want to pass on a message to you that is vitally important.

Do not, under any circumstances, kill yourself.

There's multiple reasons for it. One, it will fuck up your wife and child immensely. No amount of life insurance money is worth a husband and father. That's kike speak, putting money above everything. They will never recover from it, and you will miss out on raising your kid(s). And what if they need you soon after you're gone? Gonna let a nigger rape your wife or a spic molest your kid by offing yourself?

For two, God gave you the gift of life for a reason. Out of the millions of sperm that tried to make it, you did. That's something precious. You had that spark where they all lacked. I don't know your childhood, family or any of that, but remember. Above all else, God loves you. And hey, if you really feel down in the dumps, you can vent here or send me a PM. I spend most of my time at home, taking care of my grandma. If nothing else, you can bitch at me. I won't take much offense. We're all Brothers In Arms here, after all.

For three, that's what the jews and harridans want. So don't give them the satisfaction. They want you to break, to kill yourself out of despair. An almost surefire ticket to Hell, and one less spark to light the Way for the future. One more light snuffed out by Satan's bastards and his favorite tools (women).

And four, you are worth it. Your life is worth living. Even when it gets hard, even when the bleakness of this world is seeping into your every pore and hollowing you out, you are worth infinitely more to yourself, your wife, your children - fuck, likely to us as well, though we'll likely never meet face to face or even occupy the same city, let alone the same state - than any nigger or jew or faggot will ever be to anyone.

Shit sucks, because everything is upside down and backwards. Good is labelled as Evil, Evil is considered Good to be lauded and celebrated, perversion is rampent and soulless husks have more power than they ever should.

Even through all the Evils of the world, carve out a small slice of goodness for your family. So that your child can have a little bit of innocence in their life, so they can smile and show you the pictures they'll draw and ask you to show them how the world should be. Not just how it is, but how it should be.

Every day you live, and fight, and do not break? That is a win against the Evil that plagues you. You have to keep winning, because it only takes Evil winning once for things to be infinitely worse.

And, hell, call me a corn ball for this shit. I'm just writing from the heart here. Barely even thinking two words ahead with what I type. I don't know your struggles exactly, and I can't say I'm smart enough to do most things. I'm a dumb fuck who'll never understand smart people problems.

But I don't need to know that kinda stuff to know that you need to stand proud of what you can do, of the family you've made against all odds already, and know that you can make it through anything. Say a prayer, stand straight and look the Devil in the eye and laugh loud and long at his ten thousand faces of evil.

You got this, man.