Back when I was blue pilled I hung out with the "black cosbys" as you say (I didn't know that was a term but these do fall in that category) that were friends of my dad's. I didn't know how to gracefully disassociate with the family since we were on good terms.
I did succeed on accident though. I was moved well away from them and they attended a zoom meeting i was using for a baby shower. I was over/underwhelmed by the baby shower party (during early COVID so no family or friends wanted to visit for the party). A lot of people were in the zoom meeting.
The daughter I would chill with finally tuned in and she introduced herself. She wasn't that much younger than me but I said the first thing I could think of "Wow! You've grown up so much! Awe you look so mature now!" Wow that was a weird thing to say to a person who I met when she was an adult. Still don't know why I said that but it did result in the family not trying to hit me up anymore.
Strange win!
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