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It feels like I'm surprised every year. I didn't think I'd make it past 30, even when I was a kid. I know I'll never be able to retire, so what I'm doing now is likely what I'll be doing until I do croak. I'm probably the happiest I've ever been, mostly because my head is on straight and I'm with someone not using me. Sucks that inflation and housing is through the roof, but I guess that's to be expected anymore.

It feels like I'm surprised every year. I didn't think I'd make it past 30, even when I was a kid. I know I'll never be able to retire, so what I'm doing now is likely what I'll be doing until I do croak. I'm probably the happiest I've ever been, mostly because my head is on straight and I'm with someone not using me. Sucks that inflation and housing is through the roof, but I guess that's to be expected anymore.

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I stopped the "talk therapy" when one of them said "are you sure it happened like that OR how you thought you perceived it?"

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Oh good lord. Yeah. I went to one of those. I went to another to try to get out of an abusive relationship. He insisted I bring my bf and then told me to tell him all the crap that happened to me in childhood, that way he could use it against me and knew exactly how to manipulate me. It was great.

I've been to a ton of talk therapists and I can only think of two that were any good. The one risked her license by telling me to leave him and that she would help. The problem was that she was a drunk and kept missing our appointments. I couldn't rely on her for advice or help.

The one psychiatrist I went to as an adult threatened to toss me in the looney bin (the court appointed ones when I was a kid...don't even get me started), which is exactly what the guy I was trying to leave was saying he would do since his friend did it to his girl. Sigh. Fuckers.

Some do want to help and really can. Others are hacks. I guess it's like anything else.