Be as gracious to her as she was to you, I don't think that's a friend, move on and hold onto the people that are real friends and value you for everything there is about you, it's sad and all that but that's the way life is sometimes!.
Had she ever shown remorse for how she treated you?, I would guess at no, so just play it back and don't feel bad.
It's not hard to be better than that. Make your peace and move on.
You do you.
Why do you feel the need" to be better than that"?, There's an old saying, fool me once shame on you, fool me twice. . . . . .
If you choose to ignore how someone has treated you in the past so that in some weird ideology you feel that you're better than them, there is something wrong with your thought process, that just makes you a pushover!. If that's what you want to be, go for it.
Now, on the other hand, if that person had acknowledged that they made a mistake and apologised for it, then try and move on but always be guarded, leopards don't generally change their spots, do they?.
Christian ideals of allowing another to walk all over you are misplaced. Do you think they did that in the supposed holy wars? lol.
Keep on giving dude.
If they were that bad, why would they be an old friend. Why would they not just be ignored? Dying for or from the jab? Too bad.
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