>That’s different than people acting out because they don’t have the mental fortitude to deal with a specific, unique situation Telling the truth is a generalized choice. I understand your point about Covid hysteria causing stupidity, which is why I recommend Theo avoid getting into that debate. Stick with just the facts. *Did his family have Thanksgiving and did they tell Theo they did not have Thanksgiving.* Stay away from the *why" for the reasons you mentioned. There is zero subjectivity in answering that simple question. Either his brother lied, or his father lied. If the liar repents, changes their behavior, and makes restitution *as you're required to do for any Sin* then Theo can reassess whether to reestablish the relationship and on what terms. Truth is a baseline requirement for any relationship, particularly when it's a black and white topic such as "Did you have Thanksgiving or not".