Has he come back yet? If not, soon you will dream about him, and he will be standing at the foot of your bed watching you, or you will be doing something and he will be in the house with you. Happens to almost everybody. After you dream about him once, you don't dream about him anymore.
I imagine something like that will happen. My dad and I used to sit on the porch and shoot the shit for hours. My last conversation with him was in a dream with us sitting on the porch a few weeks after he died.
That's when all of the impulses to call him or visit him stopped.
Some bitch what great story. Write a book about it.
I dream of those that pass. Everytime. Intensely if I'm sober.
Only dreaming of them once, not so much. With some of them, the ones not so close to me, yes, only once.
But those attached to me, many times, for weeks, months. Not just wake up and soon forget type of dreams either. Like lucid, standing right there with them having conversations that I can recall word for word, right now. It is quite sad actually.
That's weird, I've had dreams where two of the close family members I've lost came back in dreams. Like they were dead and buried and then came back to life and everything was mostly normal. And I can't remember having more than one dream for each of them. Almost like there's a need to process the loss at whatever level of consciousness it is that manifests in dreams. Weird.
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