>in their own countries They're here not there. I'm with OP. If you know a white couple in that situation encourage the guy to stay and try to make it work. Tell the woman the truth about abortion that it leaves mental scars that don't go away; people just don't like to talk about it. Life may or may not start at conception but the brain chemistry changes and emotional bonding happens right away. The rational side of one's mind can think you didn't kill a baby, but your heart will believe its own thing. Sometimes it can impair future pregnancy too. If they're not white... hey it's a free country! Your body your choice!