This is true. The real woman who is wife material has already made majority of her assessment of you before even talking begins. Your fitness level, manners and how dressed you are - indicating mental stability, and later through talk about what you are doing with your life - your financial stability. Man is the one who provides, that's the natural order of things. If you meet women in bars who are going to sleep with you on the first date, and God forbid you marry them, you are just setting yourself up for the failure down the road.