Date ruined | Poal: Say what you want.

When I first meet a female I always let them know that I am unavailable at certain times (conference calls to overseas areas) and never know when those calls will happen. I also let them know I do not text.

I do that because of running into the same problem that occurred with you for years. Maybe I should feel guilt because those 'excuses' put on the table in the beginning are all lies...

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It's not only practical, but it serves to let her know that "My time is important, miss, you are not entitled to any of it, I give it to you as I want" without saying such.

"Hey just so you know, I won't be able to text or call between 9am-6pm, can't use my phone on the job". That's it. If a woman has a problem with this, she's a problem.

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I got rid of voicemail for this reason.

Also...'do not call or text me during work hours, unless the house is on fire, or you are dying. In either case, call 911 first'.

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Stupid cunts

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Fuck it. Let's write a commercial.

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After cub scouts

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Think of a product

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Dodged that bullet, good job.

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Did she know ahead of time that you are unavailable at certain times?

Also, had you already set an opposing precedent with her? Ie, texting during such times and then pulling a switcheroo when business got busy?

Regardless of how you answer those questions, her infantile response is clearly unwarranted and serves as a red flag, which is good to see now as opposed to after you invest any substantial amount of time or money into getting to know this person.

Although, I think it’s pretty common for all humans to react negatively to rejection or perceived rejection, even if only internally.

Clearly, she could have checked the temperature without acting like a child. But then that’s what mature people do, which she obviously is not.

Yeah you dodged a bullet. Glad to see you have some standards, because too many dudes really don’t. Then weeks, months, or years later they’re complaining that the cunt they married is a cunt. When they could have avoided that shit altogether if they had their heads on straight. I know firsthand, I made that mistake once already.

Even things that seem like small red flags should be processed..a lot of red flags are like icebergs in that you’re only getting a glimpse of what’s really under the surface.

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Cellphones (internet) have ruined many aspects of society.

You dont say?

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Use the money you were going to spend on her to treat yourself to the best steak dinner in town. Then text her a picture of it.

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I would send her this instead:

https://pic8.co/sh/PanGwj.jpeg

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Bill Burr enjoying the peak of his film career? Funny how his character is trying desperately in that scene to spit out that Red Pill, because seeing the world as it really is instead of as it's advertised to be can be actually painful sometimes.

I can almost sympathize.

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Joe Pantoliano

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Not Bill Burr, that's Joe Pantolioano or something like that

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His manner of spitting out the red pill was the dumbest thing ever. Once he betrays the free humans he is of no value to the machine and they have no reason to accept him back into the matrix in any capacity, let alone fulfill his wealth/power fantasies.

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Dates are like job interviews: the goal is weed the suitable from the unsuitable. This was a succesful weeding

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It's the equivalent of a candidate not showing up for the job interview.

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She texted me back. We actually went on the date.

You ever look someone in the eyes?

Like, really give them a good stare?

Look them in the eyes so good you know you aren't on the same plane of existence?

She told me how bad her day way.

And I told her I didn't want to kill myself anymore.

But I didn't tell her why.

She just wouldn't understand.

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Her whining session was just the beginning of her narcissistic behavior. Don't knock her up....

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If she agrees to see you again, maybe spend your 15 minutes of shitting during the date instead of company time. You can even text her while you're at it.

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Hey suzie, miss you, have they served the steak yet?

OMG, ARE YOU TEXTING ME ON THE SHITTER :(

Nah hun, I'm standing at the urinal, wanking one off until you can get down to business.

WTF 8D

It's cool, I'm using my left hand cause you don't come across as the most coordinated hoe I've dated this week.

I WANT TO GO HOME!!!

Call an Uber and pay the bill on your way out. I left an hour ago and am actually texting you from the steak house down the street...

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You cannot expect women to be on your level. You're a man with a burden of performance, she wouldn't know what that's like if it slapped her across the face.

Women offer companionship but not that kind. That's what male friends are for. Women, especially today, require shelter from the harsh reality their gender has created for all of us. And on some level that's what creating a family and/or a home is by definition.

Look for a woman you can guide and mold. Not an equal. I understand that's a problem because just about all women at any attractive age are brainwashed to think they don't need no man. But the wall eventually gets them all.

I hit the dating scene hard just before COVID. You cannot imagine how much trash I had to wade through keeping boundaries, setting expectations. I went on 4 dates in a year of almost constant online dating and got close to a date hundreds of times. But in my mind I wasn't interested in rulling anyone out until after the first date... Like a normal person but these fickle ass bitches all think they're too good for you because you couldn't keep them entertained enough through text. Looking back I'm glad I didn't lower my standards on this, I told myself I wouldn't waste days or weeks of messaging and validating these cunts, after a few messages I'd ask them out to meet in person and most would flake well before then anyway.

I met my wife because she was the only one I felt genuinely wanted to meet me before deciding and was not a stuck up cunt. She looks to me for guidance on things that matter, she listens to what I know about the world, though I keep most to myself and male friends and we get along in the way a couple should. I know she's looking out for me and I look out for her. Once I found out her body count was stupid low I knew there wasn't much better out there for me.

Sometimes "good enough" is the best kind of requirement to have. None of us are perfect, we all have flaws. If you're holding out for "perfect" you're just as bas these fish bicycle future cat ladies. Find someone good and make it work together.

You cannot expect women to be on your level. You're a man with a burden of performance, she wouldn't know what that's like if it slapped her across the face. Women offer companionship but not that kind. That's what male friends are for. Women, especially today, require shelter from the harsh reality their gender has created for all of us. And on some level that's what creating a family and/or a home is by definition. Look for a woman you can guide and mold. Not an equal. I understand that's a problem because just about all women at any attractive age are brainwashed to think they don't need no man. But the wall eventually gets them all. I hit the dating scene hard just before COVID. You cannot imagine how much trash I had to wade through keeping boundaries, setting expectations. I went on 4 dates in a year of almost constant online dating and got close to a date hundreds of times. But in my mind I wasn't interested in rulling anyone out until after the first date... Like a normal person but these fickle ass bitches all think they're too good for you because you couldn't keep them entertained enough through text. Looking back I'm glad I didn't lower my standards on this, I told myself I wouldn't waste days or weeks of messaging and validating these cunts, after a few messages I'd ask them out to meet in person and most would flake well before then anyway. I met my wife because she was the only one I felt genuinely wanted to meet me before deciding and was not a stuck up cunt. She looks to me for guidance on things that matter, she listens to what I know about the world, though I keep most to myself and male friends and we get along in the way a couple should. I know she's looking out for me and I look out for her. Once I found out her body count was stupid low I knew there wasn't much better out there for me. Sometimes "good enough" is the best kind of requirement to have. None of us are perfect, we all have flaws. If you're holding out for "perfect" you're just as bas these fish bicycle future cat ladies. Find someone good and make it work together.

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Like your both on a different plane, or your on a different plane than her?

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