Happiness is as much of a dragon to chase as a heroin high would be. Forget happiness, and focus on success. Fleeting moments of happiness will happen, like they do for everybody, but don't ever expect the supply to be steady. Only feminist women believe that there is some life formula that will make them constantly happy, and that is why they keep riding the Carousel and chasing utopian nonsense as they hop from frying pan to fire to frying pan to fire, making them the most unhappy souls in our society.