Today our midwife, who is supposed to stay neutral, took my side and explained to my wife in detail how they do the procedure, how they mess it up, the life long trauma, and only Jews and Muslim do it for cultural reasons. Then emailed my wife a video to learn about the terrible origins of it. My wife threw a mini fit and finally said "fine we won't do it I know it will always be a fucking problem if we do this." It would always be a problem. She knows id never forgive her for mutilating our son. Just didn't expect my midwife to have my back like that. God is good gentleman. If you need help ask Him. He will help you when the time is right. "All who look to Him for food, will be fed at the proper time." Thank you all so much for also giving me the tools and history lessons to back up my argument why it's a terrible thing to do. I love you all and I must give the credit where it is due. Thank you Poalers.