Yeah, I can understand that and respect that. But if he knows that she been having sex in previous relationships then you know it's a shit test more likely than not.
Now if she is a virgin. That makes it different. But I don't think the woman he is talking about is a virgin
This is true. The problem is, is that most assume that everyone has had sex by the time they're in their very early 20s and then make baseless assumptions on the basis of that - which is why those who have decided to wait end up being painted as liars. This is what happened in the relationship that I mentioned above - he simultaneously wanted to pressure me into sex, didn't believe I was a virgin, but also wanted to "conquer" me because I was. That was more than enough to drop the fucker to the curb - utter scumbag behaviour.
You made the right decision.
Damn straight I did. He was a massive degenerate in the end, and the events that happened afterwards led me to my husband, who is the polar opposite of that horseshit.
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