the correct answer to that one is throwing her down on a bed and fucking her brains out
To someone who actually is waiting for marriage that's a massive turn-off and not a shit test at all. I'm speaking from personal experience here, I was attempted to be pressured into sex with someone when I wanted to wait - and it instantly ended the relationship right there and then.
Yeah, I can understand that and respect that. But if he knows that she been having sex in previous relationships then you know it's a shit test more likely than not.
Now if she is a virgin. That makes it different. But I don't think the woman he is talking about is a virgin
This is true. The problem is, is that most assume that everyone has had sex by the time they're in their very early 20s and then make baseless assumptions on the basis of that - which is why those who have decided to wait end up being painted as liars. This is what happened in the relationship that I mentioned above - he simultaneously wanted to pressure me into sex, didn't believe I was a virgin, but also wanted to "conquer" me because I was. That was more than enough to drop the fucker to the curb - utter scumbag behaviour.
You made the right decision.
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