Lesbians all claim to hate the dick, yet many many lesbians tend to have had children because for some reason they decided to take the dick. I think that "lesbian" is just a catchall term that politicizes sexuality, not a clinical term for a woman who is exclusively same-sex attracted. Most of the lesbians I've known used to date men or were even married to men before. They "decided" they were lesbians. It's a choice.