I'm so very sorry. I'm 29 and waiting for the second one to come out. This is the shit I fear in 27 years
Just cherish every moment while they are young. Two of our 4 four children haven't talked to us in 6 years. My daughter has my only grandchild & we have never seen the child.
This is something I never thought possible, nor can I explain it.
What you think about is what you attract. Generally disliking the idea of a particular thing is the future is probably fine. But in the event you are actively thinking about how fearing a particular future you will not be able to help but pull the very thing towards you.
Best to you, brother!
Think of abundance and peace!
I've never met a person who believes in forced positivity and was happy and successful in their life.
I'm hardly an expert in it. But I can tell you that presently I am very happy in my life and I have obvious reasons for being so. I have not always been very happy and have gone though quite significant personal "deserts" of happiness in the past. Though, if I was to be completely honest I would say that generally I have an optimistic personality and have since I was a child so this perspective has likely come more naturally to me than it might to others.
I don't personally see it as "forced positivity" as much as "choice of focus". I live in a world of infinite thoughts, objects, relationships and opportunities. If I an inclined to notice the negative then the world around me will provide me ample opportunity to do so. Likewise, if I am driven to focus on, to feed and to notice the opportunities and blessings in my life I can also choose to do that as the world will also provide me with those opportunities as well.
Over time we will generate patterns in the ways that our brains think and the ways that we navigate through the world. Those patterns will make our focus even MORE focused in time, almost cementing our relationship with the world and creating the belief that the world is strictly objective and only fools see it differently than "I do". In my belief this world is not objective, but rather subjective, depending on the relationship each object (me and you) has with it.
God bless you brother.
However you choose to live your life, I hope it feels you with all the experiences you are seeking!
don't fear it. this is not how it worked out for me and mine.
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