I'm sorry man. I used to be pretty blue-pilled and resented my father... Unfortunately he didn't give me 'non-indoctrination' wisdom growing up, and by the time I understood my folly it was too late. I have much regret over it.
Keep the lines of communication open with your son if at all possible, even if it's just continuing to send birthday cards. Don't push too hard or chastise him, just say you miss him and hope he'll try to understand you some day. The rest is up to him.
Congratulations on raising a based daughter though... That's no small feat sir. I hope she finds a good man (perhaps she could try that 'White Date' website?).
I hope things work out. Good luck.
Thank you. I do keep an open line with my son through cards and the occasional texts. I never chastise and always iterate how much I love him and miss him. He will reply, but never initiate. Your words give me hope.
I really feel sorry for you, I really do, because it echoes a tragic part of my life
Now I'll give you reason for hope, because that's what you need
The system will probably fall on its face, we can all easily see how this can happen, just more of the same and you watch
Now, the thing is, when shit's going to go south, greek style, lots of people aren't going top be able to afford rents and bills, or even keep their job (it's already starting to kick in, hard), so what do they do? They go back to their parents, because what else? And here you are. That's not going to deliver a husband to your girl, that's not going to deliver offsprings, BUT, you're going to be together, and that matters
Take care
Thank you for the kind words. It has always been the plan for the children to rendezvous here when the shtf. Hopefully my son will make it.
This is great advice. With your advice it puts everything into question with the utter insistence of (((society))) that kids move out as soon as humanly possible. I always thought that was fucking stupid logic - if said kids are contributing to the family and not jobless bums doing nothing, why the goddamn fuck would you want to double your expenses? I get wanting to have your own space, but at the expense of being in debt up to your eyeballs it just seems like a fucking stupid thing to do.
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