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I’m just so tired, friends.

I’m tired of being estranged from my 34 year old indoctrinated son, who has had PLENTY of ‘non-indoctrination’ upbringing and influence. If you don’t have children, please, hold your comments.

I’m tired of my 27 year old based daughter not being able to find a based man that is not jabbed.

I’m tired and pissed to realize I may never have grand children.

I’m tired of my step-mother- in-law attempting to put my father in law in a nursing home because she has sucked all his money out over the years, and no longer wants to deal with him. Over 40 years married, but 20 years apart in age. She cheated on her first husband with my father in law and abandoned her 3 and 4 year old girls to marry him. Vile.

I’m just tired.

I’m just so tired, friends. I’m tired of being estranged from my 34 year old indoctrinated son, who has had PLENTY of ‘non-indoctrination’ upbringing and influence. If you don’t have children, please, hold your comments. I’m tired of my 27 year old based daughter not being able to find a based man that is not jabbed. I’m tired and pissed to realize I may never have grand children. I’m tired of my step-mother- in-law attempting to put my father in law in a nursing home because she has sucked all his money out over the years, and no longer wants to deal with him. Over 40 years married, but 20 years apart in age. She cheated on her first husband with my father in law and abandoned her 3 and 4 year old girls to marry him. Vile. I’m just tired.

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I understand. My children don't want to talk to me because I think rather than feel. It sucks. They've all drank the Kool-Aid. Yep, they don't want children because it's bad for the environment. Very sad.

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I'm so very sorry. I'm 29 and waiting for the second one to come out. This is the shit I fear in 27 years

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Just cherish every moment while they are young. Two of our 4 four children haven't talked to us in 6 years. My daughter has my only grandchild & we have never seen the child.

This is something I never thought possible, nor can I explain it.

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What you think about is what you attract. Generally disliking the idea of a particular thing is the future is probably fine. But in the event you are actively thinking about how fearing a particular future you will not be able to help but pull the very thing towards you.

Best to you, brother!

Think of abundance and peace!

I've never met a person who believes in forced positivity and was happy and successful in their life.

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don't fear it. this is not how it worked out for me and mine.

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You need to take care of yourself. It's never to late to set the right example for your family, which I'm sure you have already done. When the SHTF they are all going to be looking for a leader and you need to be that guy. When your step mother in law come "asking" you'll finally be in a position to tell her to go fuck herself.

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All my exes killed my sons and daughters with abortion The damage done to our society is real and terrifying. Take care of yourself, if nothing else, your words matter.

This happened more than once to you?

Did you impregnate them without talking about having children first?

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I can't prove it, but contraception isn't 100%. They didn't want kids, in my foolish youth I hoped that if "it" happened they would change their mind. These were long term partners who would occasionally make 'doctor' visits for vague reasons.
It's possible that I'm wrong making that statement.
Being older these days, I find myself more desirable to the women who want children, but also much more picky. It seems like every female over 21 has tattoos somewhere now, but mostly I resent the years lost that I could have had watching my children grow.
I will admit to a great deal of failure on my part that prevented me from finding and convincing someone to be the mother of my children, but the suspicion that some of them might have been conceived and aborted leaves me bitter when I think about it.
Thank you for the excellent reply.

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There's an old saying about praying for the wisdom to know the difference between what you can change and what you can't.

I now choose to remain as peaceful as I can, regardless of what presents itself. I messed up my life, so I guess it's going to be okay if I give my relatives the freedom to mess up their lives without inserting my opinions or advice. Hard sometimes though, as learning through the School of Hard Knocks can be rough...

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That's tough. I'm tired too of all the covid crap and not so great reset cabal destroying people's lives. We're forced to move now because of the covid mandates and my young daughter has become hostile with me over the drama.Granted though, I've not been in the best mood myself. Lately the only thing that's given me a little bit of sanity is separating myself from the insanity in the news.

I can completely emphasize with you, though my situation is different. I hope your son comes back around and I hope your daughter finds someone that's Vax free so they can have healthy children. As far as the step-mother-in-law, that's just evil. Don't let her do it! And, this is a girl speaking. Blessings your way.

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Thank you, unappreciative words.

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You're welcome. Hope things start looking up for you. ( oh, I think you meant to say appreciative words not unappreciated ) Lol. Have a great day.

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Cannot relate to your life situation exactly, but I can relate to your weariness. Been tired for what feels like a very long time.

Stay strong. Get control of your mind. pray.

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I pray every day, multiple times a day. Thank you for the reply.

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I'm sorry man. I used to be pretty blue-pilled and resented my father... Unfortunately he didn't give me 'non-indoctrination' wisdom growing up, and by the time I understood my folly it was too late. I have much regret over it.

Keep the lines of communication open with your son if at all possible, even if it's just continuing to send birthday cards. Don't push too hard or chastise him, just say you miss him and hope he'll try to understand you some day. The rest is up to him.

Congratulations on raising a based daughter though... That's no small feat sir. I hope she finds a good man (perhaps she could try that 'White Date' website?).

I hope things work out. Good luck.

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Thank you. I do keep an open line with my son through cards and the occasional texts. I never chastise and always iterate how much I love him and miss him. He will reply, but never initiate. Your words give me hope.

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I really feel sorry for you, I really do, because it echoes a tragic part of my life

Now I'll give you reason for hope, because that's what you need

The system will probably fall on its face, we can all easily see how this can happen, just more of the same and you watch

Now, the thing is, when shit's going to go south, greek style, lots of people aren't going top be able to afford rents and bills, or even keep their job (it's already starting to kick in, hard), so what do they do? They go back to their parents, because what else? And here you are. That's not going to deliver a husband to your girl, that's not going to deliver offsprings, BUT, you're going to be together, and that matters

Take care

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Thank you for the kind words. It has always been the plan for the children to rendezvous here when the shtf. Hopefully my son will make it.

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This is great advice. With your advice it puts everything into question with the utter insistence of (((society))) that kids move out as soon as humanly possible. I always thought that was fucking stupid logic - if said kids are contributing to the family and not jobless bums doing nothing, why the goddamn fuck would you want to double your expenses? I get wanting to have your own space, but at the expense of being in debt up to your eyeballs it just seems like a fucking stupid thing to do.

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> 27 year old based daughter

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It's funny cuz my wife is fairly conservative and so is her mother and step father. Her dad is an Uber liberal. I find it funny that it's usually the other way around. Liberal SIL and conservative father. He's cool if you don't talk politics. I always wanted a cool FIL relationship. Work on cars together or something and chill and what not. I don't get that especially since she hates her dad for the most part. Funny world we live in.

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Agreed. Funny world we live in.

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My FIL and I don't talk politics but I know he's fairly based. He lives in the old country now (returned) and he refused to take the poison gene therapy there despite being pretty old and getting sick a couple times. So that's a positive. He's quite old though so that FIL relationship of doing things together (esp since he moved back to Europe) isn't there for us, but we get along well.

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I'm tired too and I'd love a 27 year old based trad wife.

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