Stop drinking. Don't have any in the house, and ban yourself from going any place where you have easy access to it. Or, stop being a pussy, and whenever someone offers you one, you say "no thanks", or whenever you get the urge to drink alcohol tell yourself "No I'm not going to". Stop using the bottle to cope with your life.
harsh but totally correct, quit bending over for the bottle to have a reason to hang with drunk friends is a cop out to me, weak personality flaw needing others around so they don't have to think of their own flaws and correct them, time to grow up and just accept we are all flawed and just live your life in control of your own actions not blaming the booze for being a moron last night.
The vast majority of "reasons" not to do something which enriches one's life or that which is physically or mentally difficult to do are merely excuses, and they are a direct result of one being a pussy or weak minded. If one is an adult they should start fucking acting like one. Saying "zomfg I can't seem to give up drinking" is pussy-tier behaviour. Either stop fucking drinking or fuck off, I say. It might be harsh, but it's necessary.
Never drink socially, its always alone.
Then tell yourself that you're not going to do it, and follow through.
Then you have complete control over what's in your house and whether or not you go to a bar. Good on you for seeing the need though. Some people don't even get to that step.
But get the job done. Do you know how easy life gets financially when you don't have something that eats every dollar you can get your hands on. You won't know what to do with the money, and that's a good place to be.
Yeah I already started drinking cheaper shit. Now adays it is a bit about the money. But god damn I got nothin else.
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