Get a clean old white sock - make sure it is clean, fill it with fine salt, table salt or cooking salt is fine. - say about a cup of salt should be enough. tie it off to enclose it. microwave it for a few minutes until it gets hot. (not superheated, just warmer than warm) lay it down on your pillow, put your ear to it - lay there for 10-15 minutes., and let the heat in the sock melt your ear wax. it will likely make a mark on the white sock so you know it worked. re-heat it, do the other ear. the salt wants to be wet so it absorbs and draws out the melting wax, the heat melts all the wax. you will feel better in no time at all and all for the cost of an old sock and some salt. Bonus, is if you only fill the bottom part of the sock and tie it off properly, it can be used to beat liberal sjw types.