Marriage has been a scam ever since the government became involved. Why do you need a license to be married? That's fucked... I've been with my old Lady for 20 years. I told her from the get go, that I had no plans to marry anyone ever. She had and has always had the right to leave anytime she wants. But my shit is exactly that, MINE. I wouldn't fight over the kids they are old enough to choose. Fuck marriage. This day in age its just a contract... carries no real meaning anymore.