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Always knew the day would come, but they have officially disowned me, called me mentally ill, told me im an egoist and irresponsible, shrieking at me about how i'm not thinking about my health. i tried holding out against them, but now i stand my ground, and it looks like family members will be lost in this war

Always knew the day would come, but they have officially disowned me, called me mentally ill, told me im an egoist and irresponsible, shrieking at me about how i'm not thinking about my health. i tried holding out against them, but now i stand my ground, and it looks like family members will be lost in this war

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[–] • 30 pts

If they are willing to cut ties over a medical decision that is yours to make, you don't need them. If they succeed with this tactic they will just keep using it again and again.

[–] • 11 pts

This is exactly my mindset. Why would you want to twist yourself into a pretzel to appease such fuckwits?

[–] • 18 pts

My family disowned me a number of years ago about other important life events and decisions. Brother? Haven’t spoken to in nearly 27 years; sister #2? It’s been 8 years; and sister #1? 3 years. None of it scamdemic related and quite honestly, if it hadn’t happened before now, this most certainly would’ve been a tipping point. I still think about them each nearly every day, hope they are less toxic and more happy (doubt it), but don’t miss them in my life at all. I am a better person without them. I hope the same for you.

[–] • 5 pts

Same, bro. Sometimes, you just have to let people go— whether you want to or not. I have family members that I desperately wish I could open my home to, and embrace with all the familial love that I have to give. It's just not possible, anymore. We all have to come to terms with that.

[–] • 4 pts

Without conditions love becomes very toxic and destructive. Zero exceptions

[–] • 1 pt

I wish more people understood this.

[–] • 2 pts

We are raised not to. Why? So that love can be abused leading to manipulation and victimization of younger generations and of course men

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

If only there was something like unconditional love...

Oh wait! (I know, you don't believe)

[–] • 1 pt

The only entity I reserve unconditional love for is myself and God... and God more than myself, because I am but a tiny insignificant fragment of the whole. No stupid thot you pick-up at a bar with half a gram of blow is worth any kind of unconditional anything.

[–] • 2 pts

I'm the oldest haven't talked to second oldest brother since 2003.

oldest sister since 2005

next 2 brothers in 5 and 4 years

one sibling I haven't spoken to since 2011 when he passed away. We were on good terms, the only one I really miss.

haven't talked to my mother in 4 years and haven't spoken to my father in over 2 years.

Father has serious issues about the death so I give him a pass.

other wise all various issues which are rather toxic on their end.

with the exception of 2 I'm better off without the rest.

really have no clue how our relationship would have survived through all this.

They most likely would have called me the crazy one and things would have ended anyway.

[–] • 11 pts

Welcome to the club. Some find it helpful to consider these "family" members already dead. They are basically brain dead and just waiting for their bodies to stop working.

[–] • 11 pts

You just saved a fair amount of money that would've gone to Christmas presents.

[–] • 6 pts

Twist: they are ACTUALLY disowning him cuz he never buys them presents

[–] • 4 pts

I never buy presents. My brother still sends me something every year, but wont hardly talk to me. I try and try to initiate some sort of contact, but its hit or miss. Pretty hard to make heads or tails of. My inclination is just to drop in unannounced, force some interaction. "Hey im here and ill leave when i damn well please, wheres the spare room?" but he lives in commiefornia, where im disinclined to go

[–] • 0 pt

I never buy presents, or talk to my only brother. Don't miss either.

[–] • 1 pt

One time I gave my mum an origami butterfly for mothers day when I was just 16 years old.

All she did was cry and scream that that is all I gave her when my older by 6 years brother had bought her £500 worth of tat.

So I never bought my parents a single gift the rest of my life.

[–] • 1 pt

Me mum was in hospital once, and I brought her a bottle of beer...she said it was the best present ever

[–] • 10 pts

"The only one behaving mentally ill about this is yourself - tell me, who screeches at someone about declining a useless and pointless medical procedure? It sure as fuck isn't someone who is mentally healthy."

Fuck the lot of them - if they are that brainwashed and stupid, they aren't worth associating with anyway. The joke will be on them when they realise they will be tethered to the eternal treadmill of booster shots.

[–] • 7 pts

Run a rational checklist past them.

Ask them why you should get vaxxed if the vax does not stop you from getting Covid, and does not stop you from giving others Covid.

Ask them how you are endangering their lives if the vax works; and how you are engandering your own life if the vax does not work.

Ask them if they know how mild Covid is to the unvaxxed, particularly those under the age of 65.

Ask them if they know that it affects the vaxxed more severely than the unvaxxed.

Ask them if they know that the vaxxed are more likely to catch the disease than the unvaxxed.

Ask them if they know that those who have had Covid, and gotten over it on their own without the vax, can neither catch the disease or spread the disease.

Ask them if they know that the vax is killing more people than it is saving.

Ask them if they know that masks don't work, social distancing is a complete joke, and the common flu has not gone away, it's just being called Covid now.

[–] • 12 pts

They’ve probably become full members of the branch covidians. There’s no reasoning with these people. Something about tossing pearls before swine.

[–] [deleted] • 2 pts

The thing is, knowledge must come from somewhere. Your knowledge depends on which sources you watch, ask and read.

Because from their point of view, they "know" that the vaccine may not prevent you from catching covid, but lowers the odds and severity. They believe to know it reduces the time you have symptoms and thus indirectly reduces transmission. They "know" it saved millions of lifes.

And if you ask them how they know such outlandish things, they tell you they have their knowledge from their own government. From Big Pharma. From knowing that foreign governments have lockdowns and vaccinate their citizen, like europe and russia. And perhaps from asking their doctor.

[–] • 0 pt

Lost me at rational. You’ve seriously never dealt when these cultists? It’s a cult of irrationality. Refuting your rationale with the irrational is how they level up.

[–] • 1 pt

Irrational? Every media source they read & watch tells them the same self affirming information. All of the major social media websites, facebook, twitter, youtube ALL concur with the official government and main stream media narrative.

Why wouldn't they believe it.

They would have to first come to grips with the idea that the major news media is lying to them.

Hell, they wouldn't even know where to go for a reliable source of alternate information.

For that matter, I don't personally know where to go for reliable information myself anymore. But I DO know who is consistently lying to me. I also expect that if the vaccines were working well it would be plainly obvious by now.

[–] • 7 pts

Both my mother and mother in law pulled this bullshit with me and my wife. Mother in law's father (jabbed) ends up in the hospital with heart issues a couple of months later. Womp womp.

[–] • 6 pts

10 years ago I would've said don't rub it in.

Today I say absolutely be a sore winner about it.

[–] • 3 pts

Did you tell her she killed her father? Because you should tell her every time you have any contact with her.

[–] • 1 pt

Hey how you doin? What you been up to?..... That's great... better than the time you killed your father, could you pass the mash potatoes? This gravy is great.

[–] • 1 pt

GOOD GRAVY! It's just water and brown.

[–] [deleted] • 6 pts

Well, stay in touch with them so you can give them a huge ration of shit when the jab starts getting them.... Fair is fair.

[–] • 0 pt

Nah, fuck them. They'll try to contact him again, and it will drive them crazy when they can't.

My mother has a picture of me on her Facebook banner picture or whatever you call it. I haven't spoken to her in over a decade. I should contact FB and tell them to remove all of my images.

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

I haven't spoken to her in over a decade. I should contact FB and tell them to remove all of my images.

Tricky one, bet she does it to play the victim knowing how people are.

[–] • 1 pt

Knowing her OH YES SHE DOES

lol did it last night while drunk after I washed the dog

haha CHANGED

[–] • 4 pts

That's the advantage of coming from a big family, there's always one or two nut job conspiracy theorists.

[–] • 1 pt

Im the only one. My dads head is out of his ass, but he will only discuss such things with me. My mom and siblings are kike media brainwashed.

[–] • 1 pt

Luckily it’s my whole family except one sister and her husband out of 23. I guess we’re all crazy.

[–] • 0 pt

Wow.

[–] • 3 pts

There’s 5 more under 8 so I didnt include them but they’re all normal and are learning to hunt and fish and getting conservative ideas pushed their way every day lol.

8 fully redpilled 6 guys, 2 girls.

Our parents came from extremely small towns from the Midwest. They were Democrats and slowly a few of us left and were laughed at, no big deal.

Then Democrats started attacking whites in 2014 and hillary in 2016 and in those two years they all switched. Most are half redpilled a few are cuckservatives still but they’re moving along nicely, the longer this covid shit drags out and all the daily flip flops, lies and mandates the further right they move.

[–] • 3 pts

The truth is coming to light, hold the line.

[–] • 0 pt

The truth is coming to light, hold the line.

And all the retards seem to be crawling out from all the shadows.

[–] • 3 pts

You should put some distance between yourself and them.

Time and distance changes things where families are concerned.

This applies to both covid and non covid related matters.

Fighting with the family accomplishes exactly nothing good.

Better to put some space between you and remain civil.

This entire scenario may look very different in five years time - and that's only 60 months from now.

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